Recs #110
Breakfast ideas, fall books, and pretty lighting
This is the Friday recs post at Downtime, a weekly roundup of culture, books, delights, and things on my radar for my paying readers.
Happy Friday and happy Halloween! I hope you get to eat an ungodly amount of chocolate and treats today. We’re having our annual pumpkin-carving party with family, then supervising the trick-or-treating shenanigans. I’m excited to see all the costumes! (A very, very big shoutout to the fellow daycare parent who dressed their toddler as a Kirkland fruit pouch.)
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My husband made Sohla El-Waylly’s “Any Ground Meat Coconut Curry” this week and it was such a sleeper hit—quick, flavorful, and a little reminiscent of my go-to chicken larb, but with a cozy, soupy base that feels just right for fall. Our two-year-old said she “likes it” and then “all done” two bites later, so jury’s still out on the toddler approval...
Zadie Smith has a new book of essays out that I’m intrigued by; I love her writing and the way she thinks.
I keep seeing tortoise-shell candle vessels everywhere, and the whole look is quite cozy. I found some on Etsy and will be promptly burning a candle while reading a book under the blankets this weekend.


A small fall indulgence: Just painted my nails this color and it’s giving peak fall in the best way.
You’ve likely seen the viral J.Crew rollneck sweaters, but can you even handle these children’s versions from this Boston-based store?!
My answers cover book recommendations, my latest Etsy finds, the best brands for petite-friendly pants, IVF advice and thoughts, body changes from pregnancy, thoughts on career, and more…
Any cozy fall book recommendations?
Off the top of my head, You Again by Kate Goldbeck (romance), The Prime of Miss Jean Brodie by Muriel Spark (a classic), Heart the Lover by Lily King (recently released).
The NYT just released its list of cozy fall books, and also, this Downtime fall books issue from last year remains a strong list of book recs, imo.
I always love your Etsy finds. Have you found anything good recently?
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