The Helpful Phrase I'm Repeating This Week

Do you have a saying that keeps you grounded?

Last week, I was catching up with my friends in a group chat and sharing some worries I had. I felt out of sorts about a big decision, and I wasn’t sure if I’d made the right call. The anxiety was getting to me, and I was losing sleep because of it.

“Don’t pick green tomatoes,” my friend texted back. It means not to worry about challenges that haven’t happened yet. (Or things that may not happen…ever!) As someone whose baseline state of being is worrying, I needed to hear this.

heirloom green tomatoes, the only kind you should pick (image source)

Now, I find myself repeating this phrase as I go about my day and catch myself going down negative spirals.