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Recs #80: The art of friendship, writing without guilt, and memoirs to love
This week's 3 Good Things featuring Aliza Sir
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Book Chat: Kelsey McKinney on the Power of Gossip
A fascinating new book about why we love spilling the tea. We chat Justin Baldoni vs. Blake Lively, social media and gossip (DeuxMoi anyone?), and how…
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Recs #79: Sugar cookies, racy romance, tiny home upgrades, and love tokens
A Valentinesy post. ❤️
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8 Smart, Funny, and Frustrating Thoughts on Being Single from Downtime Readers
Plus, a conversation on making the most of solo life with Meghan Keane, inspired by her book "Party of One."
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Top Notes: January
A recap of the big and little things I've been loving this past month.
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Recs #78: Less overthinking, sweet gifts, and what’s on my radar
Thoughts on wanting community vs. actually creating it — plus 10 gift ideas for Valentine's Day.
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January 2025

How Are You Staying Cozy?
It's cold and the vibes are bad. Let's share ideas.
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Recs #76: Romance author Lauren Kung Jessen’s favorite things
From cozy rituals to writing mixed-race love stories and food as a love language.
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Recs #75: Ins and outs for 2025
I want to hear yours.
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Recs #74: My favorite reads of 2024, bookish goals, and the excitement of a new planner
What counts as a "five-star" read?
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December 2024

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